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Hello, dear friends! I remember one case related to achieving a goal, when a man came to me who wanted to achieve a certain goal in his work. The name, age and other data have been changed, consent for publication has been received from the client. The course of the consultation is deliberately shortened and dressed in a literary style of presentation. The man, let's call him Maxim, was an average entrepreneur, of strong physique and extraordinary mind. He managed his own production for several years, started his project based on a childhood dream and gradually developed his capacity. It would seem that everything is fine - things are moving. There was a dream that came true, intermediate goals and tasks were formed, which were being solved, and Maxim was on the verge of the final stage towards achieving his main goal - creating his own brand and launching full-scale production. However, here he encountered a difficulty that could ruin everything his undertakings. He explained this difficulty as fatigue, as if you were standing on the slope of a mountain and you can see its peak a little higher, but you no longer have the strength, fear, darkness and despair. Maxim was indignant, because he managed to launch the realization of a childhood dream, he had come a colossal way from idea to implementation and firmly moved towards the goal, wisely distributing resources from stage to stage. He built a development strategy, involved specialists, created all the necessary conditions to achieve his goal. He was not alone - with him there were faithful associates and masters of their craft , who not only believed in the success of the enterprise, but also constantly supported. And here, at the finish line, Maxim is faced with an unexpected obstacle, which was not related to finances or technical execution. This obstacle sat in his own head in the form of fear, fatigue and loss of motivation. Maxim was upset and sincerely outraged by what was happening. His entire scheme was built perfectly and was easily adjusted depending on external circumstances, so he realized that it was not his strategy, but himself. There was a clear feeling of fear, which, like an anchor, held him in place, not allowing him to make the final push to the pinnacle of success. I asked him to imagine his fear, which stopped him on the path to realizing his childhood dream. At first there was a black, frightening emptiness in the chest area, like a black hole , into which all resources and strength went. We decided to explore, ask a series of questions to this “emptiness” and observe. A minute later, the “emptiness” answered that it served the good purpose of stopping the “harmful” development. They say there is no point in wasting your precious mind and resource on your stupid childhood dreams! Here Maxim exhaled heavily and was simply silent for several minutes. Then he told me a story from his childhood, where his dad, having first heard about his son’s secret dream, irritably said that he needed to work as everything and not to stick out your stupid ideas that no one needs. People need certain things, no frills, simple and affordable! So it turns out that this obstacle arose not when Maxim was planning his dream, when he was building production, but when he got to the most important thing - fulfilling his childhood dream - creating his own individual and unique product! Therefore, fear arose - do people need his product, because it is somewhat different from what he already produced in his factory. After the “conversation with the void,” Maxim felt a little better easier, because only now the true reason for his obstacles at the finish line became clear. Now he was finally convinced that the problem was within himself and was determined to go to the end! We worked on the topic of separation with my father, let go of negative connections and returned to image of fear. Again an all-consuming black hole, which was a little smaller than the first time, but still pumped out strength and slowed down progress towards the goal. I asked Maxim to start saturating this emptiness with my love and self-confidence. The emptiness resisted a little and began to shrink .A few minutes later it disappeared completely, and :)