Women want to see real men next to them, but they meet some fake ones. But men don’t know what it means to be real. So I asked women by creating a survey on my website. I think the young ladies answered honestly. Maybe this is not very scientific, but it gives some food for thought. So, answers and thoughts. He is a real man if: he is responsible -" 26.57% (581) it is interesting to be with him -" 18.47% (404) he is strong and brave - "15.13% (331) is good in bed -" 12.21% (267) earns a lot - "10.61% (232) wants to get married -" 8.64% (189) spends money generously - "5.76% (126) In the first place is responsibility, which is for someone, including oneself, and/or to someone -That. Also, responsibility arises on the basis of guilt, or voluntarily, that is, when a person speaks, I answer. What, according to women, should a man be responsible for if he wants to be real? Many young ladies explained - for a woman. He is responsible for her and to her, which means she abdicates responsibility. Is this what you mean? For example, a girl can reason like this. I stand behind my (married) husband, he is in front, so let him face the difficulties and troubles that should not reach me. This is appreciated. That's what they say. • Behind him, like behind a stone wall. He is responsible for making sure she feels good, because he is responsible. This is where women's demands come from. - No fur coat! There are no new clothes (for a week)! Dear, do you know who is responsible for what I don’t have? If he doesn't know, then she can continue. - You have to guess what I need! Normal (responsible) men do not ask, but offer it themselves. Isn't that logical? It’s clear to whom a man should answer, now in more detail – for what. The list may be as follows. 1. For the well-being of women in general.2. For the financial support of the family. 3. For creating understanding and mental well-being in the family. I didn’t come up with this, this is how the concept of “responsible man” was deciphered by the women to whom I turned for clarification of the issue. That is, the better half of humanity wants it to be this way. This raises the question. Should the responsibility of the “worst half of humanity” arise on the basis of guilt or voluntarily? Of course it's voluntary. There are no questions here. If a man of sober mind and solid memory takes responsibility for a woman and family, then everything is wonderful. The main thing is that he understands why he is doing this. It’s another matter when they load the man with responsibility, making the man guilty, making many claims. For example, this is how Viktor Erofeev describes it: “Women are touchy. Their touchiness, ready to surface at any moment in female-male relations, exposes the laws of the market. - Why don’t you give me sets of chocolates? - Why don’t you invite me to an expensive restaurant? - Why doesn’t he harass me? This is not a game. These are market claims. Many women consist entirely of claims. Many women are deservedly called bitches. - Why don’t we move to a new apartment? An insolvent man is pushed out. A modern statistical Russian girl is not averse to carefully changing a “worse” man for a “better” man, for an “even better” man ad infinitum. There are exceptions. They are sung about in songs." Resentment is always a claim and demand. When a woman is offended by a man, she assumes that he is to blame and therefore responsible for many things, in particular, for her bad mood. This is hardly the best way to make a man responsible. Sometimes it works, but not for long, and in the long term it is useless. It can be formulated this way. A truly responsible man is one who decided to be so independently and deliberately. Or, as a result of honest and open negotiations with the woman, he accepted the responsibility that was offered by the woman. What should girls do if they really want someone responsible? Two ways. The first is to look for a man who is ready to immediately answer for everything,.