How to get out of a situation that does not suit you, using tips from the outside? How to determine what you personally want if it is difficult to understand? Perhaps in a difficult relationship, you understand that the person is not the same, but there are many things that connect you, you won’t be able to break up right away, it takes time, or, on the contrary, everything seems to be fine, then why bother, stop trying to change the person, accept and stay in this relationship. And if not? For example, are you bored or uninteresting with him? Is there nothing left to talk about? For example, you are developing, but he is not, standing still. And it's hard to do anything about it. Do you have children together? What then? Or just a toxic relationship, but you’ve already gotten used to this person? Criticizing or worse? In general, it’s a difficult choice, because there’s a lot that connects us, but it doesn’t suit us either. Or is it difficult to decide on a job, your old job is not impressive, but you don’t really know where to move? The work is already completely unbearable, it’s like going to hard labor. Monday is the hardest day after the weekend. Friday is naturally the most joyful, because here it is, a long-awaited short break, like an island of happiness. But the saddest thing is that you walk in circles, this “happiness” ends, and on Monday you’ll be back there again! It happened to me myself! I didn’t know where to go, I felt depressed. I wanted someone to save me and help me get out of this situation, only over time I realized that it doesn’t work that way! What to do when you’re not happy with the situation, maybe in a relationship or with work? When you want some kind of freedom, so that nothing weighs you down, to finally feel lightness! 1) You need to recognize the fact that no one will do anything for you except yourself. Yes, it is possible to help, if necessary, with support or something else, but the main decision to get out of this situation will be yours in any case. The notorious thing is that you will need to take responsibility and stop expecting miracles from others. 2) If you understand that “getting out” of an unsatisfactory situation is not so easy, but you don’t know what to do, then you can ask questions, for example, to your Guardian Angel or the Universe, maybe to God (depending on who). Apply something like this: “Universe, it’s difficult for me now, please tell me what to do, what to do?” (It is better, of course, to contact a psychologist, but not so that he can tell you what to do, but so that he, as a guide, connects you to your unconscious, and you could come to the realization of the best suitable solution specifically for you). I myself personally addressed the Universe this way before, and it still happens now, although now I mostly address it with gratitude. And guess what? Answers or clues come very unexpectedly, maybe even fleetingly, but you need to have time to “catch” them, like a bird by the tail. After all, it may suddenly come to mind: “You know, just do this!” And you think, really, why not. Or maybe give a ride to someone who can help. Thus, the idea came to me to study to become a psychologist when I was not satisfied with my job. And without even thinking, I fell into it. Then a friend told me: “You’ve wanted to be a psychologist for a long time!” I was surprised: “How? Really?” Apparently, I didn’t hear myself, forgot, or did something wrong. 3) You can also start listening to various meditations, calming, resource-giving, filling, getting you out of a bad state. After them, the state also levels out, more awareness turns on, and you begin to understand yourself more. And in the same way, hints may begin to come for you. 4) if a hint has arrived, but you understand that you still can’t get out of it so quickly, but that’s already something! After all, now you can slowly begin to move towards yourself, towards your positive changes! This is a different understanding. And there will definitely be results! Using my own example, I recently managed to quit a job I hated! The hint came, of course, a long time ago, I share with you, I began to take action quietly (only the closest people knew about this, so as not to lose energy on!