Masculinity is in every man. Whatever he is, fat or pumped up, weak or strong, sentimental or tough, homo or heterosexual, no one can cancel the set of hormones. We perceive masculinity from the perspective of social patterns and parental attitudes: “boys don’t cry,” “a man must earn money,” “a man must be strong.” But in reality, men are different. It’s good if, despite social patterns, they retain the ability to cry , grieve, weakness, shyness, embarrassment, cowardice, etc. But often men are cut off from their feelings and believe that being too sensitive means being labeled a "weak." A woman is in a hurry to evaluate a man from the perspective of social patterns, parental attitudes and generic prohibitions. Let him bring bags of money, support her and the children, show her eternal sexual desire and love, care for the children, be fearless, kind, affectionate, attentive for days. And God forbid he mention that he’s tired, I can’t, I don’t want to, I got it - I have to! This is how it is written in social templates! And if you let him show you a cold grin, a bad mood, anger, then you are still dangerously aggressive, “all men are goats and bastards”! A man with his real feelings, real needs and generic tasks is driven into a corner. The outer man closes himself off from the inner man. And the inner man is also Anima. That which is feminine, weak, passive, shy, which is denied and becomes unbearable. By denying his inner self, a man chooses to serve the fear of femininity within himself and outside. He is afraid to be himself in front of a woman and next to a woman. He follows only social patterns, and not his strength and his meaning in relationships. What kind of woman will come to him? The one who is afraid to be herself in front of men and next to a man, who is cut off from her animus, from masculinity in herself and outside. The one who chose social patterns rather than her own strength and her own meaning in relationships. What kind of couples are these? A man who despises and devalues ​​women and a Woman who despises and devalues ​​men. The Victim and the Aggressor, who will definitely have children, because they are destined for the role of Rescuers. Children saving their parents from reality and pain is probably a well-known story to everyone..