From the author: An article about unequal gender relations....When a man and a woman are not equalWhere did the dominance of a man over a woman come from? Back at school, we studied how primitive males obtained mammoths for their women and offspring. However, even then She kept the fire burning in the cave! What would happen without her? Yes, the human race would die out. Let us remember the Great Patriotic War. This war affected many countries. I don’t know how it is in France, Austria, Germany, Spain, Italy. but in Russia the rear was provided by Women! The rear is Mother Earth, it is the foundation, it is the base, it is reserves of resources for further battle, it is respite, it is love, protection and even tenderness. The rear is no less important than the front line, always and in everything! Then why do men most often put a woman in a lower dependent state? It is known that when one Person lowers the self-esteem of Another Person, it is out of fear that she will do something dangerous for him. Therefore, it is better to “give her right away... somewhere... so that she knows her place “from below.” Based on this, the conclusion arises that a man is at least afraid of a woman! At the maximum, she puts a terrible fear on him. This beast it is necessary to tame it immediately! Why does a man have fear of a woman? From his mother, of course. A boy’s mother is a terribly beloved character! Pressing over him for half of his life - in early childhood and school years, in youth and even adulthood. The wife is also a woman and. the mother of his children. But she is not his mother! This is where you can come off! All the unexpressed complaints and grievances are the mothers of his children! And immediately feel better! Your women and wives and even the mothers of your children! Moms! That’s why a woman heroically defends her independence and integrity! By the way, you men replace her dad in her fantasy unconscious? How do you like this news, if she was friends with her dad? Then she is with you - as you are with her. You pay her for your mother. And she is with you - for her dad. This is what happens most often. Those girls and boys who in childhood received more love from their mothers than insults - they have fewer complaints against their spouses. And then it is not necessary to put yourself above Her. And then the relationship between the spouses (or the woman-man) is always “on equal terms.” By the way, during the candy-bouquet period, the relationship is often always on equal terms - he asks her... and is interested in her desires... and waits... and gives. He artificially withstands this period so that she does not run away from the wedding to another. She is also “good” - all tenderness, kindness and attention... it seems that she doesn’t know how to swear at all. And after the wedding, everything often changes. On both sides. How to do this? You must remember that this does not happen. Well, it doesn’t always happen “One on top!” If someone is on top now, the time will come when he will be below and vice versa. You don’t want this? If not, then a position on equal terms is more profitable and wiser. Yes, you, a man, are almost always “on the front line!” Your women provide your rear! And this is no less important task! Believe me. And even check it out once - switch roles (I often assign homework to spouses to change roles on weekends). I think that you don’t want to stand at the stove for half a day, check your offspring’s homework and respond to your instructions with “darling, what do you want for lunch... else...”. And you, really, will finally learn that dust does not disappear on its own, food sometimes burns, trousers need to be ironed, and you even have to smile sweetly at your mother-in-law’s nagging. You still don’t know what it takes for a woman to work to be beautiful! We should give this task to you too - pluck your eyebrows, powder your nose, dye your hair, do a manicure, shave... wash... smooth... decorate yourself! And manage to be on time for kindergarten, school...cooking...washing...drying...and with you to the concert! And the main thing is to manage to remain cheerful and playful. Now I have described the ladies who are not engaged in social work (housewives). Working ladies are a different story. Because I still don’t understand how they manage everything!........