Each of you is familiar with the following situations personally or from the stories of others: - Mom, mom! Look what I did! - I'm busy. OR: - Dad, let's play? - Come on later. I have a job. What happens inside a person? This is a fight! Which is difficult to live. For example, “I did so much today, at least someone would praise me. On the other hand, I must be independent!” In this situation, all the energy goes inside, it has nowhere to move. This energy is directed at oneself and it can only come out through the ears, and it is unlikely. It is precisely such situations that give us neuroses. The child tries on the conflict (this is typical for a child), remains silent, and the need for recognition has not been realized. During external struggle, we open our mouths and declare our needs. “Hey mom! Check out the drawing"Neurotics are people who strive for extreme achievements, they can’t calm down, they constantly strive for ideality. If they do something, it must be the best of the best. If it is a drawing, then only for the exhibition. He still wants to prove something. They are characterized by workaholism. In this way, they seek love, attention or recognition from their parents. The cause of neuroses lies in childhood, when the child was severely screwed up, he “did not receive enough” But!!!! Oddly enough, this reason is the engine of progress. Often the engine of such progress is the shortage of what was not received. That’s why it’s so valuable to give yourself what you haven’t received, and only then abundance is possible. He asks, what could it be? Perhaps care, support, love. If you notice similar behavioral reactions in yourself or in your children that complicate your life, then come for a consultation, we will figure it out and improve the quality of your life! I am sure that it is in dialogue with a specialist (psychologist, psychotherapist) that it is possible to notice yourself and your needs. Since a neurotic person is characterized by “curtailing” his true desires, suppressing his emotions and feelings. Take care of yourself and your loved ones. Psychologist, Gestalt therapist Svetlana Shagina.