This article is dedicated to women who are on the path of finding their femininity, their true purpose and simply female happiness! The path of femininity is not easy and many wander in the darkness of the ideas that society has instilled in them, perhaps this article will allow you to see where they got lost, and how to discover true femininity in themselves. The life of a modern woman is arranged in such a way that all interests, hobbies and aspirations are aimed at external manifestation, for example, achieving physical attractiveness. Look at women's magazines that , filled with a huge amount of advice: what diet to choose, how to lose excess weight, how to get rid of wrinkles and cellulite, how to take care of your home and children, how to get a good job. All these tips are aimed at achieving seemingly important goals in a woman’s life - to charm and retain a man, prepare for motherhood and become a good housewife, and grow up the career ladder. And nothing is said about the most important thing: how to “capture” yourself and realize yourself as a real woman! And although many modern women can succeed in their careers, they do this mainly due to the loss of femininity and the adoption of a masculine style of behavior. It seems that women have only three opportunities to realize themselves in life: 1. Find the man of her dreams who will make her happy and solve all her problems; 2. Become a mother, live for children; 3. Compete with men for power and prestige .In the pursuit of “opportunities”, a woman forgets about her essence, her destiny, which was given to her from birth - to be a woman! In order for a woman to feel like a happy person, it is not enough to be only a mother or a wife, and even more so a business woman. Business brings income and self-satisfaction to our vanity, relationships can end, a man can leave, stop loving, children grow up and no longer need our care. We may continue to maintain the illusion that this is all we need to be happy, but life confirms the opposite. This is evidenced by the stories of a huge number of lonely, devoted, disappointed women who are tired of the constant struggle for beauty, attractiveness, youth, and the status of a worthy wife or mother. What to do, you ask? Learning to be feminine is all a woman needs in order to be happy! If you want to live a full life, you need to develop not only external capabilities that are associated with building relationships, motherhood and a career, you need to have internal life and work on yourself to become an individual. It is necessary to stop being an appendage of a man, children and/or work and turn to your true femininity, which is the embodiment of the feminine principle. A woman needs to become “her own mother,” direct all her maternal qualities to herself, begin to take care of herself and teach herself to be a real woman. There is no need to change your behavior and follow stereotypes, it is important to understand the essence of femininity and find individual femininity, as everyone understands it. There are three manifestations of femininity: 1. Natural femininity - genetic, given from birth. She represents the natural state of a woman. 2. Socialized femininity - determined by culture, society. It is formed as a result of the imposition of stereotypes about real femininity. Under the influence of society, the pure nature of a woman loses much of its essence. This is what happens to a lion cub that is tamed to live next to a person: it loses its sense of smell, orientation and hunting instinct. Natural wisdom is forgotten and polluted due to conventions and taboos, due to forced adaptation to the social system. 3. Higher femininity - can be formed consciously and intentionally in the inner world of a woman as a result of conscious management of two parts - natural and socialized. A woman in the process of searching and analyzing takes from.