The question is quite voluminous and could take more than one hour to answer, but within the framework of this article I will try to note the basic principles that should be followed when resolving such situations. Firstly, Man is different from man. Who is this man for you? Spouse or common-law “husband”? Or maybe just a guy with whom you are not connected by a common life? What is your attitude to what is happening and long-term goals? Let's go in order. First of all, look at yourself: aren't you giving a man too much? Especially if you are not married. Take a closer look and honestly answer the question: “Am I the only one trying here?” Unfortunately, dear girls, you very often give a man too much when he doesn’t need to give it yet. You surround him with care and attention, affection and support, give him energy when he has not yet shown himself. You have only known each other for a few weeks, but you are investing as if you have at least a silver wedding behind you. Wait, slow down! Turn on a slight detachment and observe the situation. Look at how a man will behave. A woman is not created to “bless” a man with service and care, who is essentially a nobody to her. This is simply a loss of your strength and, moreover, a factor in the development of non-masculine character traits in a man. Seeing that his whole soul is “wide open” to him, he begins to appreciate it less, or even ignore it completely, and the relationship slides to an increasingly primitive level. Therefore, take a break and give the man the opportunity to restore the disturbed balance, and carefully observe yourself to understand what kind of person is on your path. Another option is if you are married (not in a so-called “civil” marriage!). Once you made a choice in favor of their spouse and agreed to become his wife. This means that they have taken on certain obligations towards him. Of course, there are a lot of obligations on both the male and female sides, but some things are critically important for preserving the marital union on the female side. This is precisely service and care. If the choice is made, then you, as a wife, have taken on this difficult burden to serve and care for your husband. I sincerely hope that you are not reading this article to hear something like: “Leave that asshole!” Let someone else take care of him!” This is not the way of a real woman. Moreover, I will tell you that such an “other” will definitely be found somewhere. As they say, for some he is a goat, and for others he is a hero. Therefore, even if you want to call your spouse a variety of words and consider him the embodiment of heavenly punishment, pause and remember that for another woman he will turn out to be the hero she has been waiting for all her life .In the skillful hands of his wife, a man is very flexible, and you can mold him into an absolutely wonderful person. Even if not immediately, even with difficulty, perhaps not ideal, but truly loved and worthy. Therefore, in the case of your husband, your task comes down to the famous proverb: “If the mountain does not come to Mohammed, then Mohammed goes to the mountain.” No matter how much a woman would like to “hang” most (or at least half) of the responsibility for what is happening on her husband, the truth will not change: for the formation of relationships in the family on 75- 80% are answered by women. Wherever your neck turns, that’s where your head will look. A woman is always a neck that “turns” her husband. And the woman’s task is to turn things around correctly so that there is peace and harmony in the house, and at the same time the man feels like he’s in charge. How? Through service, obedience and approval. A woman should give all this to her husband. Please note that marriage imposes great responsibility, and the framework is no longer so flexible. In the case of an ordinary man who does not respond to your care and service, you can very easily switch to another who is everything -will still make a contribution to your relationship. But in the case of your husband, you cannot just change a person. Moreover, such “changes” often do not lead to